What are some defining moments in your life that changed everything?


Lost in thought after church service  while scrolling through my Twitter feed I stumbled upon a great quote that fit perfectly with the new series my Pastor had just kicked off called Defining Moments

“Divine moments happen in the midst of simple questions.”—Megan Fate Marshman

Moments have power. Moments both create change and challenge direction. Rather big or small they often fall to a blind eye in the “moment” but looking back we see it is all part of a bigger shift.

The question in my mind was what are some of my defining moments?

Continue reading

How To Stretch Your Development


Ever wonder why some songs just grab your attention? That is what happened one day when I was driving home from a work meeting and heard Spirits by Strumbrellas. I had never heard it before but for some reason, it just stuck in my mind. As I listened to the lyrics I thought what in the world do they mean by guns in their head?

I got guns in my head and they won’t go
Spirits in my head and they won’t go

So of course, I had to look into this later. What was the songwriter thinking about when they wrote these words? Was there any meaning behind this catchy tune? And here is what I found at genius.com.

“Spirits” is the first single off The Strumbellas’ first album on Glassnote Records, Hope. Lead singer Simon Ward described the song to Riff You, saying:

“Basically, the song is about fighting your inner demons. Trying to change and become a better person in life. I write songs to reflect where I’m at in life, and this song is me saying to the world that I’m doing my absolute best right now to be a good person.”

Do you feel as if you have guns in your head and they won’t go? Are you fighting the urge to change? We all struggle in life with our inner fears. Do you ever notice just about the time you are going to cross over from your former self to your newer “changed” self-something tries to drag you down and keep you there? It is like the pressure of gravity pulling at your arms, legs and even your soul.

A speaker at the 2015 Global Leadership Summit whose name is escaping me now talked about this tension like a rubber band. It is that moment right before you release. The tension is tight and pulling you back but when you let go it soars steps ahead. You do have to be careful not to stretch it too far or it will break but in order to project forward, we must be stretched.

There are a million articles out there on stretching your development but I came across this great one written by Celestine Chua, 42 Practical Ways To Improve Yourself that I wanted to share.

Check it out and then name one thing you can do this week to stretch yourself. Post what it is in the comments below, on Facebook, Twitter or maybe just write it out on your calendar to look at each day this week.

Enjoyed reading my posts?

Click the Follow Button in the sidebar on the main page or at the bottom of each post to receive weekly notifications. Please also share with others on social media or comment below.   I look forward to talking with each and every one of you.